Hi Dave, thanks for the reply. Kind of ironic that this could have been prevented if only we had written down the password on a piece of paper. By the way, when we did recover the account, her old password was still in her private vault, which you can only get into if you know the password.
Very clear that "something went wrong", but there should be an action in the app to clear/reset/refresh/edit account information. As stated above, the option to directly load the new data from the website into the app did not work, it kept the old/invalid data in the app. That link where it explains how to add an account, that did not work either, it would not let me either remove or add an account. Both the '+' and '-' buttons were disabled with the old/invalid account information stuck in the app.
repro scenario: on a mac, get an account all set up, and then do a recovery and try to directly reload the new info into the app. It simply does not work properly.
Just to be totally clear: I don't blame my wife for "messing up". She's actually pretty savvy technically, but even a computer illiterate should be able to clear this data without having to go into system folders to manually delete obscure data. This is a flaw in the system and should be fixed. Also, removing user data should be part of the uninstall process. Also, deleting old/obsolete user data should be part of the install process. If you're worried about losing user data, add a confirmation message "found some old data, wanna keep that?" and then fix the software so that the user can actually edit account information.
Anyway, rant's over. It works for now, like I said I figured it out myself yesterday. Hope this thread will help someone in the future